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Post by horsegrl124 on Dec 27, 2006 10:27:46 GMT -5
I need everyones help...Ok so I'm in Germany. When I got over here I was single..but a month after I got here, a guy from back home asked me out. So we've been dating for the past...umm...couple of months (i don't remember right now haha). Last week I was at the pub with my friends and my "brother" (another exchange student that is in my next host family until March) kissed me. I have been thinking for about 2 weeks now about breaking up with my boyfriend. I want to be able to have a good time in Germany seeing as how I'm only here for a year. Do you guys think that I should break up with him? I've had this feeling for about a week now that he's cheating on me. The way he talks on the phone is like he doesn't really care anymore. For example..yesterday I called him and I was homesick, so I just wanted to talk to someone that spoke American English (no one in my host family speaks English) and that knows everything that is going on. But he would rather go and work on his car (that needed to be vacummed (sp?) then talk on the phone. ::sigh:: should I break up with him? (sorry for the novel!!)
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Post by EnglishCowgirlE on Dec 27, 2006 12:44:40 GMT -5
Yea! I think you should... A real boyfriend would stay on the phone then go cclean his stupid car... Jeez Louise!
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Post by horsegrl124 on Dec 27, 2006 12:55:56 GMT -5
Ok so I called him today and he was talking really rude about my best friend. He is getting dumped like next week  |
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Post by EnglishCowgirlE on Dec 27, 2006 16:57:28 GMT -5
Lol! BOO on HIM  |
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Post by Happy_Appy on Dec 27, 2006 18:15:24 GMT -5
OMG totally. I know exactly how you feel.
Last year, at the end of the year party at my school for the 6th graders, the school president asked me out. Actually, his best friend asked me out for him. I didn't even know him, but his best friend was like, "he'll be so heartbroken..." yada yada yada... and so I said yes. So we meet up at the movies all summer (yes, our moms had to come and our little bros because they're best friends). Well, he goes to a dif junior high than I do. So one day he invites me to this church play/dinner party and all he can talk about is this chick he calls his "just friend". Psh yeah right! So he's talking about her, and so I start talking about this guy friend I made named Eli. I'm like, "Eli can play the electric guitar" and "Eli has brown hair like me" and really just trying to make him jealous.
Well, we always AIM eachother, and he hadn't been on since July (this happened in November). Finally, he comes on. By now, I've liked Eli since October, and Eli's way more nice to me than Brandon (my current "boyfriend" at the time). I had just found out that we are going to seperate high schools, and there's no way we'll go to the same school again. I tell him about that and he's like "duh". I said "you weren't gonna tell me that" and he's like "why should I?". Finally, I said "this isn't gonna work out. I like another guy. Eli." then I asked, "do you like another girl? be honest" and he says "ofcourse not". Yeah right. So I keep asking him and finally he's like "well there's this girl but she just wants to be friends". I ask "do you like her?". Long pause from his end. "yes". So I'm like "I think we should break up" and he goes "i need to sleep on this" and signs off. I haven't heard from him since.
Anyway, I'm not gonna date Eli because I HATE boyfriends right now because they're so stupid, but I still like him. I'll only go out with him if he asks me out. But still...
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Post by hoofbeatts on Dec 28, 2006 20:14:16 GMT -5
Wowie..what a drama..
0.o
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Post by hunterchick on Dec 31, 2006 10:17:15 GMT -5
ya BREAK UP! i would go up to my bf and smack him and start getting RLLY MAD!  |
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Post by simongingerlove on Dec 31, 2006 22:03:10 GMT -5
dump him!!!! OOHHH?? do you speak german?? I speak some!! just can't speel it so here is an attempot
zezent ien berliner
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Post by horsegrl124 on Jan 2, 2007 8:54:57 GMT -5
Yes I speak German, and I did dump him. So much better now! Oh yeah! So I was out with friends for new years and he sent me an email (i hate the time difference! 6 hours from me to the east coast!) and he was like "i'm really sorry and I didn't mean to hurt you. Can you please give me another chance??" I was like "yeah, right." and then I said some things that I can't repeat on here |
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Post by simongingerlove on Jan 2, 2007 10:37:50 GMT -5
ooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh bad gal!
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Post by horsegrl124 on Jan 4, 2007 4:18:05 GMT -5
ok so i called him last night because his sister said he wanted to talk to me. I did just to hear what he had to say. Guys are so rude sometimes...ugh...he started talking crap about my trainer (who's a guy...they talked on the phone once and my ex thinks he now knows EVERYTHING about the way he acts.) so i told him if he ever wanted to have a chance with me again that he would have to keep his mouth shut about my friends/family and then i hung up on him |
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Post by HunterGirl on Jan 4, 2007 16:46:43 GMT -5
Haha. Nice work. He sounds like a total jerk to me. He probably wasn't when you first started going out, but nw, I'm glad you dumped him.
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Post by EnglishCowgirlE on Jan 15, 2007 19:27:12 GMT -5
Very nice work Go ahead and says the things that you can't repeat on here. I won't mind if its swears (*cough cough DAD cough cough*) |
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Post by horsegrl124 on Feb 1, 2007 14:33:49 GMT -5
ok i told him that he was a f***ing a**hole and that he can burn in hell. so here's an update on all this crap that he's been putting me through- he called me on my bday and said sorry about everything and according to his sis (she's 16 and one of my friends) he was like crying about me dumping his *** for like a week! i was laughing at that one. I've been having the best time over here in Germany. I think like 5 guys have kissed me since we broke up! (haha and my friends took pics...i was a little...drunk i guess you can say ) and hes still sending me my christmas/bday/v-day gifts! this guy is like obsessed! oh well...at least i get new earings and a new necklace! lol |
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Post by EnglishCowgirlE on Feb 1, 2007 21:14:07 GMT -5
You go girl!  |
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